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Some people look unemployed. They’re just employed differently.

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Coastal cities run on money you can’t see.

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Lifestyle wealth isn’t the same thing as real wealth.

BRIEFING

Grant here. Do you ever find yourself at the gym during "working hours," looking around, and wondering, "Who are all these people, and why aren't they at work?" This phenomenon happens in cities large and small, but San Diego might have one of the strangest. Walk into a high-end gym at 10:30 on a Monday and you’ll find it packed with young, healthy, attractive people lifting weights, running on treadmills, and moving through workout classes like it’s a Saturday afternoon. It's strange, especially in one of the most expensive zip codes out there, but there are some interesting theories on this bizarre trend. Let’s break it down.

An interesting set of theories emerged on this phenomenon after one San Diego local posted a video describing what he sees at his gym, where memberships run around $130 a month. According to him, the place is filled with young people during weekday mornings, even as many college students in the city say they can’t find jobs.

Honestly, this entire thing feels like a contradiction. On one hand, young adults complain about a brutal job market and sky-high housing costs. On the other hand, the swanky gyms, coffee shops, and beachside hangouts are chock full of beautiful, trendy 20-somethings, all during the hours when most people should be working.

The video’s creator floats two theories: the first is the rise of what he calls “internet money,” meaning remote jobs, freelance work, and social media-related roles that allow people to work flexible hours from anywhere. Reasonable enough. We all know that remote work and online ventures have changed the game for many.

But then his second theory is something a little more intriguing: connections and quiet wealth. San Diego has plenty of affluent families, and in cities like that, a surprising number of jobs never appear on job boards. Instead, they move through private networks, family businesses, or positions that allow people to work flexible schedules while maintaining a comfortable lifestyle.

It's basically a life of privilege that you can only enter if you're born or married into the club.

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One of San Diego’s great mysteries: why are there so many beautiful people at the gym at 10:30am on a Monday and how are they affording to live here? He comes up with two theories pic.twitter.com/aWE2dA5rPa

— Financial Dystopia (@financedystop) March 3, 2026

Then another user below the video points out another interesting theory: kept women.

"In SoCal, there are a lot of kept women. I dated an actress that had someone from back home that just paid her credit card every month. He owned 5 gas stations and hadn't seen her in years."

That just adds yet another layer to the entire elitist, daytime gym culture. It's basically like the modern-day version of kings having mistresses and hiding them away in luxurious apartments. But nowadays it's a wealthy day trader paying for his side pieces pilates class and a $20 Erewhon smoothie.

DEBRIEFING

So when you step back and look at this entire thing, it's not just beautiful young people working out at a swanky gym instead of working. It's exposing the modern hierarchy of coastal elites.

Cities like San Diego run on something less visible to us peasants: quiet wealth networks. Family businesses, private connections, inherited money, and support systems that rarely show up on job boards or LinkedIn profiles. From the outside, it can look like people are somehow thriving without working, when in reality they’re living inside an affluent bubble that most of us can't comprehend.

And then there’s the slightly uglier, less flattering side where a certain number of people are simply being financially supported by someone else. Whether that means wealthy partners, family money, or "arrangements" that stay off the radar, it’s another layer that can quietly sustain a lifestyle that would otherwise be impossible.

Put it all together, and the crowded 10:30 a.m. gym phenomenon starts to make a lot more sense.

The gym now is like the common square in medieval times, where royalty would stroll through on carriages while normal people shoveled poo. Yes, maybe a bit of a dramatic comparison, but it's how normal and rich folk mingle nowadays.

NOW YOU KNOW

Wealth is often invisible until you see where people spend their time.