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The promise was simple: if men did more, women would want more children. The result was the opposite.

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Men adapted behavior. Women adapted ideology. Biology didn’t adapt at all.

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Gender roles didn’t disappear. They inverted expectations without replacing incentives.

BRIEFING

Grant here. A little while ago, a theory took hold across western culture: if men did more housework and childcare, women would feel supported, fertility would rise, and family formation would stabilize. That theory has now been put into action and as a result is actually measurable. Men did exactly what was asked: they increased their share of domestic labor and child care year after year. Yet, fertility didn't recover but instead collapsed further. Let’s break it down.

As this chart here shows, men have become more domesticated, generation after generation, and yet, families are shrinking more and more.

It's almost as if women don't find it attractive when men behave like women...

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AMERICANS ARE having fewer children than ever before. In 2024 the fertility rate was just 1.6 babies per woman, down from 1.9 a decade ago. This is partly because people are becoming parents later in life; some may be discouraged by the costs of housing and child care. Whatever the cause, those who do have children are spending more time with them than previous generations did—and fathers account for much of the recent increase.

The trend is not new. One study found that between 1965 and 2012 the amount of time parents in rich countries spent with their children doubled. Data from the American Heritage Time Use Study, from 1975 to 2018, show that successive generations have devoted ever more time to their little ones. Millennial mothers (born between 1981 and 1996) spent 12% more time caring for children than Gen-X mums (1965-80) did at the same age. The difference between young Gen-X and baby-boomer mothers (1946-64) was 52%. Millennial fathers, meanwhile, spent 6% more time on child care than Gen-Xers did. The biggest jump was between boomer and Gen-X dads: young Gen-X fathers spent more than twice as much time with their kids as their predecessors did at the same age.

 

There's another big trend that has emerged alongside this behavioral shift. Data shows that young men have stayed relatively stable in their political and social outlook, while young women have moved sharply left.

It's interesting to see how the ideological gap between men and women has widened, even as household roles have supposedly "converged." The political divergence says a lot, and it shows that the more independent women become, the more sharply their views skew left.

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DEBRIEFING

So what we see here is that men adjusted in measurable, practical ways with more childcare, housework, and participation at home. And those changes were supposed to be the missing ingredient in the fertility equation. However, as we can see, it only made matters worse.

Then at the same time, political ideologies shifted in a big way for women, and then marriage became optional, and motherhood was reframed as just one lifestyle choice among many, often delayed indefinitely.

It's ironic, really... the incentives around family weakened even as cooperation inside the household increased.

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You can rebalance chores. You can’t rebalance biology or desire.